Hello to all today:
Today I want to share the Scorpion sign with you all. Boyfriend and I were both born under the Scorpion sign in 1980. It seems to me like Scorpios have been given a bad rep, so I want to clear the air. Also, if any of you are interested maybe I can find info on your signs and post them. I would love to have comments from others on whether you guys think this is true.
What is hidden deep within the soul is what the Scorpion is interested in. Many Scorpios take on the task of exploring not only our own, but others close to us. We want to know the deep dark truths in the soul of every person. We are not interested in tenderness and beauty, we would much rather see the horror and dark inside everyone. We are drawn to the mystery of life and sometimes will make a mystery out of nothing, so we can explore. When I speak of horror I mean "dark" emotions...such as passion, jealousy, revenge, desire.
Scorpios are attracted to crisis. We feel most alive when we are near others who are testing themselves, as we often test ourselves. This is why Scorpios make great doctors or fighters. We do not fear death, and are not going to shy away when there is a dangerous situation. This is why Scorpios can make one of the best friends, because when the going gets tough....we can step forward and fight...with no judgment or contempt. We simply just understand and respect the dark forces in life and are willing to walk through the fire for ourselves and others. Many say this is self destructive, but the truth is that everyone must face these emotions to live a fully rounded life. While Scorpios may seem a little dark, there is a darkness in life that needs to be noticed also.
Scorpios have great compassion and sympathy for those in pain. Scorpios have the ability to look past all the smiles and truly feel pain as one who has been hurt. For this reason Scorpions may feel contempt for those people who say they have never felt pain, or seem to have never been hurt. It is a bad trait, I know, but when one doesn't feel pain then what are they getting out of life? How do they know they feel good?
Scorpios need emotional intensity to survive. When one carries so much passion and intensity, it is hard to simply go through the motions. Especially in very personal close relationships we need to know that if somethings happens all will be lost. That is why having a relationship with a Scorpio is always going to be rocky. They will go through extremes faster than most can keep up. They will focus on the negatives because this aspect of the relationship is what keeps them wanting more. Scorpios are not going to do well in simple little lives, mundanely following the previous days path, they must, for their own survival know what they are accomplishing. And if it is love then they are fierce.
Scorpios may not question their existence or the existence of emotions. We know that there are things with no earthly meaning to them, and often these things are the dark ones.
With all the dark there is hope my Scorpio friends. We are full of passion. We find passion in others that they may not even be aware they posses. We value friendship so we do not like to betray, for losing a true friend will drop to a very dark place within ourselves that we do not even like to go. We value, respect, honor, and fear love. Love will be our greatest feat if we are able to hold on to it. Any Scorpio knows what I mean. We will attempt to sabotage a relationship in the beginning to make sure it is worth the fight in the end. (Now imagine two of these under one roof). Not having fear of the hidden forces makes us seem fearless...and this is not correct, we hold fear just as others, but as one fears looking too close, we fear of not looking close enough and this is a cause for much concern with our friends and family.
We are strong and courageous. We know when their needs to be a change and we make the change happen one way or the other. We are not going to sit quietly and wait until the situation changes itself!
We are jealous and controlling. This is not a bad thing when we realize our limits and work with them.
While we may enjoy conflict we must realize that others do not. We must respect others! We must respect ourselves. We must learn to control the need to dive further. Once this is done others will see our passions without having to face the dark.
But then again we are Scorpios and the dark is a part of our make-up so one can either see and stay, or see and hide. We are great teachers, friends, and LOVERS. Take us for whom we are, because we love you!
Thanks for stopping in:
Nik
